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Follow The Loser – 7 Steps To Failing In Business

penguin jump Follow The Loser   7 Steps To Failing In BusinessWe’ve all heard the game “Follow the Leader”…one person leads a line of followers behind them who all do exactly as the “leader’ at the front of the line does.  If the Leader raises their left arm, they all raise their left arm.  If the Leader skips a step and does a fancy spin, they all do the same. If you don’t do exactly as the Leader does, then you fall out of the game.  At the end of the game, the one person left that has proven he can do everything the leader can do then becomes the new leader.  It’s much like the game of life.

Our goal should be to emanate the leaders, or mentors, in our lives to become more like them.  Do what leaders do to produce the same results that leaders produce. In the same way, do what losers do and produce what losers produce.  Follow the leaders and you become leaders.  Follow the losers and youbecome losers.  Ouch…that hurts just to type it, but if we’re honest with ourselves, we know it’s true.

Want to fail in business?  Here’s a sure fire business plan for you:

  1. Spend your days procrastinating and thinking about being successful, then do nothing towards taking the required action.
  2. Allow yourselves to be distracted and quickly lose interest in your goals.
  3. Be inconsistent and unreliable.  Never worry about keeping your word or your habits in check.
  4. Devote yourself to searching for something with huge financial returns for little or no effort….Sorry, they don’t exist.
  5. Allow other people (usually friends that are not doing so well themselves) to influence their decisions, and hold you back. Remember, the sad truth is that friends love to see you doing well, but most don’t like seeing you do better than them!
  6. Convince yourself that you  do not deserve to do well.
  7. Allow the fear of failure to take hold and choke the belief in your success.

You are the master of your own destiny and you are in control of your own future.  There is a great quote that I use on all my emails, it goes like this:

“There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.”~ Denis Waitley

Remember, in our game of Follow the Leader, the game requires one thing to begin: ACTION. Where are you taking action? Are your actions mimicking a leader’s traits or a loser’s? You can change today…it’s never to late for a new start.

To Your Success,

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P.S. ~~> If you love self development as much as I do, I have to recommend an extraordinary teacher to you.  Jim Rohn is a true leader that has been sharing his motivational and leadership philosophies for over 39 years and has impacted the lives of such people as Anthony Robbins, Brian Tracy, and Denis Waitley.  His website Jim Rohn International has a wealth of positive and life changing articles, audios and DVD’s.  Be sure to go check it out.
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  • Damn it, now I need to get to work, shutting down RSS...
  • Now, I wouldn't go that far....some distractions are ok (as long as it's reading & socializing on Market Like A Chick!! ) ;)
  • It is sad to say that I have done some of the above, BUT by reading articles like this one, I am turning things around. Running a business from home means it is easy to get distracted by kids, housework and the husband. Thank you for reminding me about the what-not-to-dos so that I can stay focused and on the right path!
  • Hi Jackie...SWEET! I'm glad I can lay out the path NOT to take. :) I know all about getting distracted by kids (I have 4), and looking around the house to see all the work that needs to be done. I try to spend the last few minutes before bedtime picking up & organizing the house so when I get up in the morning everything is fairly neat. I can't work if there is clutter & mess!

    I've also resigned myself to the fact that when 3pm rolls around I will have to take a break to help with homework, and spend a little time talking to the kids about their day at school. That way they feel like I'm there for them and don't resist my work at home responsibilities. I can usually get in another 2 to 3 hours of work before dinner and more family time.
  • You have hit the mark here. Sadly most people follow the loser, not the persona of a loser but the mindset of a loser. :-)
  • Hi Walter...Glad you stopped by. Yes, it's the mindset behind the label that we're talking about. Anyone can change their course and the mindset of a winner can be adapted at anytime.
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